You're the kind of complex system who knows how to handle complex systems, and you like to hang out with other complex systems who know how to handle complex systems.

The law of requisite variety states that Only variety (in the regulator) can destroy variety (in the system being regulated).

You know this in your bones, and so it behooves you to proudly display that you are willing to reject simplicity, so long as it is because you have to increase the complexity of a system in order to properly handle the complexity of the situations it has to deal with.